Tamparan keras untuk pelakor.....
Fenomena sosial yang terjadi di masyarakat ini (PELAKOR) sudah merajalela. Dan menjadi banyak sorotan media. Bahkan hal ini mendapat perhatian toko muda ini dan beri pesan monohok untuk para pelakor.
Mengutip dream.co.id , KH Muhammad Nur Hayid. Pria yang erat dengan sapaan Gus Hayid ini menegaskan pelakor maupun pebinor mempunyai konsekuensi aturan haram dalam Islam.
“Jelas , Islam menghukuminya haram , pelaku pelakor dan pelaku pebinor ,” ujar Gus Hayid kepada Dream , Selasa , 12 Desember 2017.
Gus Hayid merinci dasar pelakor dan penibor dihukumi haram. Menurut ia , pelaku ingin berbuat jahat , merusak tatanan sosial kemasyarakatan , serta menyakiti istri dan suami serta bawah umur dari laki-laki atau perempuan yang direbutnya.
“Ini membahayakan maka bagi para pelaku pelakor dan pebinor dosanya sanggup dobel , berkali-kali lipat ,” kata Gus Hayid.
Anggota Komisi Dakwah MUI Pusat ini menjelaskan para perempuan dan laki-laki yang merusak rumah tangga orang lain mendapat tiga dosa sekaligus. Dosa pertama yaitu merebut pasangan sah orang lain , disamakan dengan mencuri.
“Satu dosa merebut istri orang , itu hukumnya terang mencuri , merebut berarti mengambil hak yang tidak boleh diambil kecuali dengan cara yang halal ,” ucap dia.
Dosa kedua , kata Gus Hayid , menyakiti istri , anak dan keluarga. Dalam Islam , perbuatan ini sangat terang dilarang.
“Seorang Muslim yang satu yaitu saudara dengan Muslim yang lain. Konsekuensinya dari bersaudara yaitu ia tidak boleh menyakiti sedikitpun dengan kata-katanya , dengan lisannya , atau dengan perilakunya ,” imbuh Gus Hayid.
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“Pelakor ini punya motif yang sangat jahat yaitu perzinahan. Kalau ia tidak ingin meminta dengan cara baik-baik , dengan izin , tentu ngobrol dengan istri dan keluarganya nggak mau ,” tutur Gus Hayid.
“Akhirnya si perempuan ini akan sembunyi-sembunyi. Sehingga merayu dan terjadilah perzinahan ,” ucap ia melanjutkan.
Hayid menegaskan perbuatan pelakor dan pebinor akan mendapat azab dua kali lipat lebih berat. Maka dari itu , janganlah sesekali mendekati perbuatan ini alasannya sangat jelek dan jalan yang keji.
“Semoga kita semua dijaga dan diselamatkan oleh Tuhan dari perilaku-perilaku yang jelek dan kotor ini yaitu sikap pelakor dan pebinor ,” tutupnya.
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