Setan sejatinya ialah musuh yang bertujuan untuk menyesatkan Manusia. Laknatullah yang dengan segala cara supaya insan terpengaruh tipu dayanya. Dari dahulu sampai kini tak akan mengalah menarik hati , begitulah semangat setan dalam menarik hati manusia.
Namun , setan ternyata juga bisa menangis juga. Dalam Hadist Riwayat Ibnu Addi , Rasulullah SAW menceritakan bagaimana setan menangis dan mengeluh lantaran hal ini. Ternyata yang menciptakan anak buah Iblis ini murung ialah ketika insan tetapkan menikah pada usia muda.Usia muda dalam konteks ini tentu mereka yang sudah baligh. Setan merasa celaka lantaran insan terpelihara dari godaan untuk melaksanakan perbuatan zina. Sepert diketahui , salah satu perangkap paling ampuh ialah menggiring insan untuk mendekati perbuatan tersebut.
Jabir bin abdullah ra mengutarakan , Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda , Barang siapa diantara cukup umur menikah dalam usia muda , maka menangislah setan. Dan beliau mengeluh , ‘Aduh celaka saya , agamanya telah terpelihara dari godaanku“(HR. Ibnu Addi).
Sayangnya menikah ketika usia gampang menjadi hal yang dipandang gila ketika ini. Bahkan tidak sedikit pihak yang menolak ijab kabul muda. Alasannya ialah mereka masih belia dan dinilai belum matang dalam menjalani urusan rumah tangga.
Padahal tidak sedikit di negara maju yang membebaskan pergaulan anak-anaknya tanpa ikatan ijab kabul hidup menderita. Remaja wanita yang mengalami kehamilan pra nikah harus mendapatkan kenyataan membesarkan anak-anaknya sendirian tanpa suami. Akibatnya , banyak bayi yang tumbuh besar tanpa ayah.
Sementara perkara di Indonesia sendiri menurut penuturan Menteri Sosial Khofifah Indah Parawansa , pada 2013 kemudian tingkat perkara kehamilan di luar nikah mencapai 2 ,2 juta. Umumnya mereka ialah cukup umur yang berusia berkisar antara 15-19 tahun. Seandainya mereka menikah saja ketika menemukan jodohnya , tentu akan ini tidak akan sebesar itu.
Nabi Muhammad SAW sudah menganjurkan supaya segera menikah. Seperti sabda Nabi berikut ini yang artinya.
“Wahai cowok , barangsiapa di antara kalian telah bisa maka hendaknya menikah , lantaran ia lebih menundukkan pandangan dan lebih memelihara kemaluan. Dan barangsiapa yang belum bisa , maka hendaknya ia berpuasa , lantaran ia sanggup mengekangnya.” (HR. Bukhari).
Jadi telah terang bagaimana Nabi memerintahkan umatnya supaya menikah di usia muda jikalau telah baligh dan mampu. Dan kalau merasa belum bisa , maka diperintahkan melaksanakan puasa untuk menjaga dirinya.
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